[Feb 2016 Update: Dating a Divorced Dad – Version 2.0 Updated] Let’s Hook Up, Wait. We’ve both got some history under our belt, kids, and some requirements for what’s OK and what we simply won’t ever do again.
(Red Flags, we like to call them.) As we navigate “dating” again, we quickly realise the rules are very different.
But I'll leave the debate on whether that's true for another day.
Don’t miss the exciting conclusion of this single dad’s journey: A Dad In Love, Again (I’ve got two kids and a full-time job, but I’d still like to find time to be with someone.) 1. I will admit that getting back out there, for me, as a man, initially was about sex. (Kids, work, and all the other stuff we’re just remembering we love to do) have to be the priority. That might be a stretch if you’re playing the field, or not sure about what you want. By the time we get past 1st-base I’m letting you know that I am into you.
Today, I think sex can get in the way of learning if you like the person. I can be several different sizes of Boston Terrier, but if you’re into whippets and poodles, we’re probably never going to be a match. It may take several months to get in our first four dates, but… And then we’ve got all the negotiations about how and when we want to see each other. Fearless Commitment To Monogamy At first divorce may seem like we’ve gotten the key to the kingdom of sex again. And if you want to go further, we’ve got to establish some mutual objectives.
The biggest practical problem facing a single parent looking for love (whether male or female) is lack of free time – your social life is likely to be the first thing curtailed.
This often causes the biggest problem of all – actually getting out there into the big wide world and meeting anyone, let alone “someone”.