First, it’s a huge mistake to look at relationships like some sort of game where there are rules to follow and a strategic ways to respond to specific situations. And yeah, of course guys want sex, so if you think that sex is the only bargaining chip you have then you will always feel paranoid about men using you.It sounds like you want your relationship with the guy to progress and you read somewhere that guys lose interest after sex, and now you’re freaking out because of receiving either bad advice, or misconstruing the advice you got. Think about it – do you honestly think that men choose a woman for their one exclusive relationship just for sex?
And is there any other form of encouragement we can provide that lets him know we are interested in him, but not sitting around helplessly?Among various manuscripts, the trunk contains an unusual book.Voynich buys the manuscript, and for the rest of his life tries to decipher it. After Voynich's death, the manuscript ends up at the Beinecke Rare Book and Manuscript Library at Yale.I’ve been totally cool about it, giving him all the space in the world, no calls, texts, emails.My Facebook page (which I know he looks at) makes it clear I’ve been out with friends, at events, and that good work things are happening.My questions are: Is ANY contact okay during this withdrawal, or is all contact off limits for a while (the “Rules” say it is…)?